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Before we get to today’s article, I just want to mention that am writing from the perspective of a man that has experienced many of the challenges of which I write…. and those spiritual battles continue daily. The articles are implications of what it means to obey the commandment to raise your children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. They require some reflection and are particularly for Christians who, as Peter would say, are diligently seeking to confirm their calling and are making every effort to supplement their faith. Said more succinctly, serious Christians. If you know other believers who desire to walk more faithfully with the Lord, please forward an article to them and tell them to sign up for future articles. Thanks so much!

The ongoing changes in the culture are creating a world in which the hiding places that were easily sought by the Christian are being dismantled day by day. Anti-Christian policies and thinking are washing over every area of society, and we will soon arrive at the “no place to hide era.” What do I mean by when I say “hide?” I mean that prior generations of American Christians have been able to go about their daily business of sending their kids to school and going off to work without mentioning a word about their faith. They were able to blend in with the culture, possessing a chameleon like ability and have their faith go undetected. But that time has passed.

Welcome to the age of ultimate decisions. With the advent of all manners of perversion being introduced into the workplace, schools, and even the places we shop, Christians will have to decide and make known through our actions where we stand. Not that we were ever supposed to be blending into the culture. In fact, the mandate given to us from the Lord always demanded that we speak out boldly for Him and all that He taught. We are not to be the same as the world at all! Spurgeon helps us to think rightly in his 9/11/23 devotion updated by Truth For Life, and he cites 2 Corinthians 6:17: Therefore, go out from their midst, and be separate from them, says the Lord, and touch no unclean thing; then I will welcome you.

Spurgeon says, “In your spirit, as well as in your aim, you should differ from the world. Waiting humbly before God, always conscious of His presence, delighting in fellowship with Him, and seeking to know His will, you will prove that you are a citizen of heaven. And you should be separate from the world in your actions. If a thing is right, though you lose by doing it, it must be done; if it is wrong, though you would gain from it, you must reject the sin for your Master’s sake. You must have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness but rather reprove them.”

My friend is facing this dilemma in his workplace. The organization that he works for has created a department for Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (D.E.I.). Now, I don’t write about politics and will resist the temptation to do so here, but we must be aware of the implications of a political agenda that affects our Christian lives and the lives of our children. On the surface, D.E.I. seems to be a thing that every Christian would support. I mean, who would be against having more diversity in the workplace, or making sure that everyone was being treated equitably, or that everyone was included? Well, ironically, a system that is based on setting the goal to increase the number or contractual agreements for a specific group of people inevitably results in those groups being favored over others. Unfortunately, when awarding jobs or other types of contracts are not based solely on the merits of the applicant, injustice occurs. In other words, you may get diversity, but your D.E.I. policy winds up treating some inequitably and excluding them as you favor your target groups over the non-targeted groups.

How is this being sold to the public?

  1. Because the targeted and favored groups get more power and money.
  2. Because those making the policies are loved by those favored- think votes.
  3. Because the Christian worldview is diminishing in our country and in the absence of it, the ability of the culture to think and discern properly is diminished, and in its place comes perversion.

So as my friend began to think more about his job in D.E.I., he verbalized several key points:

  1. He said he was OK with some parts of D.E.I., but not with others. His conscience was disturbed and his early training in the scriptures were informing his conscience.
  2. He was honest about his own weaknesses and admitted that his thinking on the matter would eventually be affected if he stayed in this particular job. I believe that this would be so for most everyone in his position because promotions and job approval would depend on hitting those numbers, thereby creating pressure to suppress the violation of his conscience. In addition, we all want to be liked and approved by others and that would mean agreement with what others believed.
  3. He thought about the cultural trends and what it would mean for Christians in the future. He wondered if we were arriving at a time when it would reveal the false Christians from the true Christians. Would false Christians capitulate while the true Christians stood?
  4. He began to wonder what he should do.

I believe that we have been witnessing the time of false Christians revealing themselves for the last 20 years. We are not only seeing fewer people come to Christ in salvation, but seeing more people turn their back on what they said they believed and absorb the false ideologies of the culture. However, we must be careful to not throw all of those who compromise under the bus. I am thinking of Peter, that prideful and boneheaded man (no, I am not talking about myself!), who responded to Jesus’ words in Matthew 26 with, “Though they all fall away because of you, I will never fall away.” Yet, within hours, he answered those who were questioning his alliance with Jesus with, “Then he began to invoke a curse on himself and to swear, “I do not know the man.”

Fast forward to John 21 and we see Jesus restoring Peter to the great leadership role he was to have in the church. God had purpose in allowing Peter’s fall and subsequent restoration. God used that situation to hammer Peter’s pride, force him to see the weakness of his own heart, recognize his unworthiness of salvation, and see Jesus’ incredible love for him. All of this was needed to prepare him for leadership, and this later became evident in his humility, gentleness, and patience. His failures enabled him to sympathize with the Christians he was leading. Once again, God brought good out of bad for Peter and the church.

What about you? Are you being sifted as Peter was? Are you in a similar situation as my friend and if not, how much longer before you are?

What should you do? First, you must be honest about your heart’s motivations. The reason most people stay in jobs that are compromising their conscience is for money and benefits. They believe that they are doing well where they are, and they don’t want to disturb their feeling of security and accomplishment. However, that is a false security. The truth is people actually have no more security in a job that pays a salary than any other because the Lord sovereignly dictates what happens. Your job status is completely dependent on the Lord’s will. So, what are your choices?

  1. You can speak up and share your concerns. This is not just a matter of going to your boss and dropping a verbal hand grenade. No, a great model for us is Queen Esther in the book of Esther. Read chapter 5 and see that she had something to say to the king that was volatile enough to get herself killed. She was committed to say what was needed, but she waited and created the circumstances that produced the best chance the king would receive the message without becoming enraged. She approached the king with great humility and carefully crafted words, and the king responded well. However, the most delicate and thoughtful approach is no guarantee that you will get the same result so prepare your heart for a very negative reaction. This may take its form in you being passed over for promotions and pay increases, verbal barbs, and shunning from your fellow workers. Should you choose this path, know that your heart will not be safe from the steady drone of temptation to change your Christian worldview and go along with the crowd. It is imperative that you are faithful to feed your soul with God’s word and other Christian disciplines needed to bolster your defenses.
  2. You can look for a new position in the same company- a position that does not require you support things that God would not approve.
  3. You can change your job now. You would do this for the sake of your conscience and to protect your heart from eventual compromise and further justification for not dealing with the situation.

You may be thinking that I am a little too extreme. Am I actually saying that a person should quit their job and deal with the possibility of a loss of pay or maybe even derail a career? Yes, and by asking the question, you may be revealing that you are more concerned about worldly things than obedience to the Lord. Let’s take one more look at the passage that I started the article with and expand it to 4 verses so you can see just how strong the Lord is on this point:  

2 Corinthians 6:14-18 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever? What agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; as God said,

“I will make my dwelling among them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. Therefore, go out from their midst, and be separate from them, says the Lord, and touch no unclean thing; then I will welcome you, and I will be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to me, says the Lord Almighty.”

And finally, how does this play out in our obedience to Ephesians 6:4, to raise our children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord? How do we model this kind of thinking and actions to our children?

Well, you must share your challenging experiences with your children. You tell them that you desire to obey God. And you suffer the consequences and by doing so, you prove to them that you believe the things of this world don’t compare to what God has for us. For consistency, this may also transfer down into their immediate world where they have to leave a friend group or a sports team that they want to be part of. This is where forming a courageous and obedient Christian life starts for our children. This is where we say that for our family, we choose to obey the Lord and put away all worldly idols. May God give us the strength to do so.

By the way, just another encouragement to read or listen to the wonderful book by Thomas Watson called, All Things For Good.

Apple Podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/all-things-for-good-by-thomas-watson-and-read-by-michael-lee/id1703108941)

Or, YouTube (https://youtu.be/cCMPuNsv6dE).

Or, read it online at www.ModernPuritans.com

Thanks for checking in. See you next time.

OTHER RECORDINGS THAT YOU MAY FIND HELPFUL:

Title: Thoughts For Young Men From The Book By J.C. Ryle. Read By Michael Lee

Description: A wonderful book of Biblical truth and advice for young men. Helpful to parents as well as the young men themselves. Full of wisdom for a life filled with Christ. J.C. Ryle (1816-1900) served God in England as a pastor and teacher for more than 40 years. His words are still being used by the Lord today and are applicable to all Christians in all times.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-thoughts-for-young-men/id1673847428

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQixZIaBE95_JRojVSkzq1nl

 

Title: Stand Firm Written By Peter Jeffery and Read By Michael Lee

Description: So you just became a Christian and now what? Get ready for a life of walking with the Lord and experiencing the joy of knowing you have peace with God. However, you also have an enemy- the devil. Peter Jeffery wants to help by teaching you about the battle with the wicked one and how you can STAND FIRM against his attacks!

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-stand-firm-written-by/id1681861976

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQjhDFeGYG5Tt5EWjeuz-e1p

 

Title: The Duties Of Parents From The Booklet By J.C. Ryle. Read By Michael Lee

Description: From the famous booklet written by Pastor J.C. Ryle. Pastor Ryle gives us 17 points of Christian parenting on which to focus our attention. His words are timeless and apply to parenting today as much as it did 100 years ago.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-the-duties-of/id1676664853

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQgfoZGiRgzptFs7g07vkwU5

 

Title: Rediscovering The Lost Treasure Of Family Worship. Written By Jerry Marcellino And Read By Michael Lee

Description: Family Worship was once the normal practice that most Christian parents led in their homes. Led by either parent, the children would be taught daily from the word of God, pray and sing songs. It was considered to be a vital part of the Christian life.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-rediscovering-the-lost/id1692401602

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQgNq7asslVBsKyq0FC3arMs

 

Title: Choose Your Master: God Or Money. Written And Read By Michael Lee

Description: This is one of the most written about topics in the Bible because it is one of the most dangerous to the Christian. Listen in on the good and bad experiences of the author and strongly consider the Bible’s teaching on stewardship.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-choose-your-master-god/id1683382182

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQiHoB3-tBm1qDDbxxpQAvTl

 

Title: Why Should I Believe Anything About Jesus Christ? Written By Various Authors And Read By Michael Lee

Description: This Podcast features three famous recordings of booklets written by John Blanchard that will strengthen your own understanding on the death and resurrection of Christ and also serve as a great evangelistic tool for a friend or family member. The first booklet is called, “Ultimate Questions.” The second booklet is called, “Why The Cross?” And the third booklet is called, “Jesus, Dead Or Alive?”

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-why-should-i-believe/id1692832161

YouTube: Each of the John Blanchard booklets has its own recording. See below.

Ultimate Questions.  https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQggMxnbCbkLux2C6QB1W0VG

Jesus- Dead Or Alive? https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQjeqfP9L1olkHULFCNHVDDF

Why The Cross? https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQgJEuKxJL0dgjCDM85tyqrQ

 

Title: From Religion To Christ, Written By Peter Jeffery And Read By Michael Lee

Description:  Tired of the many systems of religion that you have observed or been part of in the past? Are you ready to say goodbye to religion? The author Peter Jeffery, agrees! Doing “religion” is empty and will not get you to heaven. There is something more-something much greater. Take a careful listen through this podcast and discover what a real relationship with God actually looks like.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-from-religion-to-christ/id1687134464

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQg_lCngBTcjs_dXT1VYvYWA

 

Title: A Call To Prayer By J.C. Ryle. Read By Michael Lee

Description: This is a passionate plea from the famous preacher and teacher, J.C. Ryle. Although these words were penned more than 100 years ago, the need and application for today’s Christian is greater than ever.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-a-call-to-prayer-by/id1672880807

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQjaXXgO8P1U-bBFkEMCwdYR

 

Title: Precious Remedies Against Satan’s Devices From The Book By Thomas Brooks. Read By Michael Lee

Description: (This is one that you can listen to a “precious remedy” each day). Thomas Brooks, born in 1608, was a Puritan preacher who wrote a number of essays during his time with possibly the foremost entitled, “Precious Remedies Against Satan’s Devices.” In writing the book’s dedication, he wrote, “Christ, the scripture, your own hearts, and Satan’s devices, are the four prime things that should be first and most studied and searched. If any cast off the study of these they cannot be safe here, nor happy hereafter.” Brooks believed that all Christians have particular weaknesses in their faith and those weaknesses would be exploited in some way by Satan.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-precious-remedies-against/id1671364198

YouTube: Not on YouTube just yet.

 

Title: Messages You Want To Share With A Friend Or Loved One. Written By Various Authors And Read By Michael Lee

Description: This one has 11 different recordings of parental concerns including how to love difficult people, how to deal with angry children, family feuds, how can I know I am a Christian, and more.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-messages-you-want-to/id1681581764

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQgfa3amEo_gqzBt6ypv4KX1

 

Title: Critical Considerations For Christian Parents About Your Child’s Education, By Michael Lee

Description: As we search the Bible for answers to the question: How shall we raise our children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord,” we can see that the system for educating children was done primary by the parents in the home. However, the world in which we live now is quite different and the vast majority of parents use an educational system that is outside of the home and is that system is called the public schools, or the government schools.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-critical-considerations/id1678162250

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQjnvjc7QuytT2V3lVr53oqa

 

Title: Sinners In The Hands Of An Angry God, By Jonathan Edwards And Read By Michael Lee

Description: This famous sermon by Jonathan Edwards will sober you up to the awesomeness of God. It is updated in modern English by Modern Puritans.com

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-sinners-in-the-hands/id1695783947

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQjGDaS1xyeRC8vUJFwsxxaX

 

Title: The Mortification Of Sin By John Owen And Read By Michael Lee

Description: This famous treatment on killing or “mortifying,” sin by John Owen, has been updated in modern English by Modern Puritans. You will have to think hard but it is worth the journey.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-the-mortification-of/id1696454280

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQhOf-5DP2eZY4M91_NdlKwI

 

Title: Can You Trust God? Written and Recorded by Michael Lee

Description: Trusting God is not always easy in the midst of difficulties. We tend to trust in the things that we can see and feel and often succumb to anxiety or despair. My purpose in writing and recording this booklet is to create an ironclad argument for trusting God no matter what the situation.

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4-presents-an-important-question/id1680420137

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQiHI31v5yt695Yuvc_VSyHA

 

Title: Cherish Ephesians 6:4 Written and Recorded by Michael Lee

Description: This is the podcast that has the weekly article from the Cherish Ephesians 6:4 ministry.

Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cherish-ephesians-6-4/id1658865547

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAh2MVKU1VQj2iqoMVx36VEbpUZEQcyom

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